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Your baby has a need to explore. It's how she learns about her world and the things in it. Sometimes though, this need can get her into trouble. She wants to touch, taste and hold everything-even dangerous or delicate things. You have to set limits for your baby. You want her to explore. But you can't let her hurt herself or damage things in your home.
For example, your baby has watched you pot a new plant. You've talked with her about the delicate leaves and the dark soil. She watched as you watered the plant and put it on a shelf by the window. But now your baby wants to explore it. She crawls to the shelf and pulls herself up. She is ready to topple the plant. What do you do?
One thing you can do is move the plant. Put it in a place where your baby can see it but not pull it over. This is childproofing. Your baby is more mobile than ever. Move delicate and dangerous things out of the way of your exploring baby.
Another thing to do is distract your baby. She has a short attention span. Her memory is short, too. This lets you distract her from an activity. Pick up your baby and show her a new toy. You don't have to say "No" or fuss about the mess she could have made. Saying "No" too often makes the word less effective.
Pulling on an electrical cord is a real danger. This time, say "No" firmly. Then distract her. Also think of ways to hide the cord so she can't play with it. It's never OK to play with electrical cords.
You can help your baby remember and follow your directions. Always respond quickly. And always respond consistently. Use the same words every time. For example, say "No, that is dangerous. It is not to play with."
Expect your baby to explore. But she has a short memory. And she won't remember your directions easily. Respond quickly to dangerous behavior. However, it's important not to become angry with your baby. She needs your help to learn about what's dangerous. Respond the same way all the time.
Month By Month has been adapted for Fathers from Healthy Start, Grow Smart, Your Newborn, Washington, D.C. 2002 - U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
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